I tend to write most when I’m going through difficult times, and while I’ve most recently gone through one of the most painful experiences of my life, I’ve felt it necessary not to divulge every last detail. This time, my story is intertwined with someone else’s and it’s not wholly mine to share.

What I can share is this: divorce can be one of the loneliest experiences of one’s life. Alone with your thoughts, doubting yourself, finding some friendships that you previously held dear somehow suddenly nonexistent…

And yet, in the end, you find that friends who have stood with you from the beginning will stand with you still, knowing your heart all along the way. New friends will emerge, watching you navigate a challenge that you didn’t think you’d survive, and offering encouragement to push through.

Though I’ve experienced much pain and grief for the better part of the past year, I’m so thankful to say that this new chapter of my life has turned into something I could have never dreamed possible – thanks to all who have stood steady by my side when I felt totally shaken and off-kilter.

So here’s to community. And to true friends who celebrate good times with you and hold you up in bad ones. And to family who offer fierce and unconditional love. And to all those who lift others up when they need it most.

You all know who you are, and I love you forever. ♥️